We may not know what Army veteran Matthew Whalen’s final wishes were, but one can imagine that dying so young was not in his plans although saving lives seemed to be part of who he was. Many of us would like to control our final moments, but very often cannot. However, by having an advance medical directive and living will, we can control who is in charge of making those final healthcare decisions and provide guidance to our family and friends about end of life decisions and organ donation. And, what is more important is that by establishing these directives, the conversations can be had with family and friends about those specific wishes and desires and avoid having to figure out what was wanted at an already stressful time. #advancedirective #estateplanning #livingwill #organdonation